1、真正的友谊[文]的要素，在于体[章]谅别人的小过失[来]。
The key to true friends[自]hip is to be conside[文]rate of other people's minor faults.[字]
2、友谊是两颗[控]心真诚相待，而[文]不是一颗心对另[章]一颗心的敲打。[来]
Friends[自]hip is the sincere[文] treatme[字]nt of two hearts,[控] not the beating[文] of one heart on another[章].
3、因为有利可图才与你结为朋友的人，也会因为有利可图而与你绝交。
People who make friends[来] with you because[自] they are profita[文]ble will also break up with you because[字] they are profita[控]ble.
4、朋友交好，[文]若要情谊持久，[章]就必须彼此谦让[来]体贴。
Friends[自] make good friends[文], if the friends[字]hip is to last, we must be modest and conside[控]rate to each other.
5、人家帮我，[文]永志不忘；我帮[章]人家，莫记心上[来]。
Never forget to help me; never forget to help others.[自]
6、故君子相求[文]也，非特兴善也[字]，将以攻恶也。[控]
Therefo[文]re, gentlem[章]en seek each other, not especia[来]lly good, will also attack evil.
7、有朋友的人[自]像平原一要宽广[文]，没有朋友的人[字]却像窄狭的手掌[控]。
A man with friends[文] is like a plain, but a man without[章] friends[来] is like a narrow palm.
8、敌人的笑脸[自]能伤人，朋友的[文]责难是友爱。
An enemy's smiling[字] face can hurt others,[控] but a friend's blame is friends[文]hip.
9、志合者，不[章]以山海为远；道[来]乖者，不以咫尺[自]为近。
Those who are willing[文] to coopera[字]te do not take mountai[控]ns and seas as distanc[文]es; those who are well-be[章]haved are not close to each other.
10、友谊和花[来]香一样，还是淡[自]一点的比较好，[文]越淡的香气越使[字]人依恋，也越能[控]持久。
Friends[文]hip, like flower fragran[章]ce, is better if it is lighter[来]. The lighter[自] the fragran[文]ce, the more attachi[字]ng it is, the more lasting[控] it will be.
11、好友面前[文]，不可当众揭其[章]所短，扬其隐私[来]。
In front of friends[自], you should not expose their shortco[文]mings in public and promote[字] their privacy[控].
12、鹿鸣得食[文]而相呼，伐木同[章]声而求友。
The deer sing for food and shout for each other, while the lumber chorus for friends[来].
13、兄弟可能[自]不是朋友，但朋[文]友常常如兄弟。[字]
Brother[控]s may not be friends[文], but friends[章] are often like brother[来]s.
14、和你一同[自]笑过的人，你可[文]能把他忘掉；但[字]是和你一同哭过[控]的人，你却永远[文]不忘。
You may forget the one who laughed[章] with you, but you will never forget the one who cried with you.
15、以势交者[来]，势倾则绝；以[自]利交者，利穷则[文]散。
Those who make use of the situati[字]on will be absolut[控]e if they are incline[文]d; those who make use of the situati[章]on will be scatter[来]ed if they make use of the poor.
16、长相知，[自]才能不相疑；不[文]相疑，才能长相[字]知。
Only when we know each other by appeara[控]nce can we not doubt each other; only when we do not doubt, can we know each other by appeara[文]nce.
17、用人者，[章]取人之长，避人[来]之短。
Employe[自]rs should take advanta[文]ge of their strengt[字]hs and avoid their weaknes[控]ses.
18、人生所贵[文]在知已，四海相[章]逢骨肉亲。
Life is preciou[来]s in the confida[自]nt, the four seas meet flesh and blood relativ[文]es.
19、过分了解[字]或者过分不了解[控]，同样妨碍彼此[文]的接近。
Too much underst[章]anding or too little underst[来]anding also hinders[自] each other's proximi[文]ty.
20、酒逢知己[字]千杯少，话不投[控]机半句多。
A thousan[文]d drinks are not enough for a confida[章]nt, but half a sentenc[来]e is not specula[自]tive.
21、是所有人[文]的朋友，对谁也[字]不是朋友。
It's a friend of everyon[控]e, not of anyone.[文]
22、独在异乡[章]为异客，每逢佳[来]节倍思亲。
Alone in a foreign[自] country[文], I miss my relativ[字]es every festiva[控]l.
23、为朋友而[文]死不难，难在找[章]一个值得为之而[来]死的朋友。
It is not difficu[自]lt to die for a friend,[文] but it is difficu[字]lt to find a friend worth dying for.
24、很多显得[控]像朋友的人其实[文]不是朋友，而很[章]多是朋友的倒并[来]不显得像朋友。[自]
Many people who look like friends[文] are not actuall[字]y friends[控], while many who are friends[文] do not look like friends[章].
25、所谓友谊[来]，就是一颗心在[自]两个身体里。
Friends[文]hip is a heart in two bodies.[字]
26、没能弄清[控]对方的底细，决[文]不能掏出你的心[章]来。
If you fail to underst[来]and the details[自] of the other party, you must never pull out your heart.
27、能媚我者[文]必能害我，宜加[字]意防之；肯规予[控]者必肯助予，宜[文]倾心听之。
He who can flatter[章] me will do harm to me, and he who will rule will help me, and he who will listen attenti[来]vely.
28、我们结交[自]朋友的方法，应[文]该是给他人好处[字]，而不是向他人[控]索取，这种友谊[文]最为可靠。
The way we make friends[章] should be to benefit[来] others,[自] not to ask for them. This friends[文]hip is the most reliabl[字]e.
29、傻子们的[控]友谊由于恐惧和[文]贪婪，好人们的[章]友谊由于一见倾[来]心。
The friends[自]hip of fools is due to fear and greed, and the friends[文]hip of good people is due to devotio[字]n at first sight.
30、势利的朋[控]友，迟早会离你[文]而去。
A snobbis[章]h friend will leave you sooner or later.
31、君子之交[来]，淡若水；小人[自]之交，甘若醴。[文]
A gentlem[字]an's acquain[控]tance is as light as water; a man's acquain[文]tance is as sweet as licking[章].
32、忽如一夜[来]春风来，千树万[自]树梨花开。
Suddenl[文]y, as the spring breeze comes overnig[字]ht, thousan[控]ds of trees and pears blossom[文].
33、战战兢兢[章]，如临深渊，如[来]履薄冰。
Trembli[自]ng is like walking[文] on thin ice, like facing an abyss.
34、贫贱之交[字]不可忘，糟糠之[控]妻不下堂。
A poor and humble friend is unforge[文]ttable,[章] and a poor wife will not go to court.
35、选择朋友[来]应当像选择阅读[自]的书籍一样，一[文]要谨慎，二要控[字]制数量。
Choosin[控]g friends[文] should be like choosin[章]g books to read. First, we should be cautiou[来]s and second,[自] we should control[文] the number.[字]
36、真心结交[控]朋友，应当忘掉[文]朋友的过失。
If you make friends[章] sincere[来]ly, you should forget your friends[自]'faults.[文]
37、君子之交[字]，定而后求；小[控]人之交，一拍即[文]合。
A gentlem[章]an's acquain[来]tance should be settled[自] before he asks for it; a man's acquain[文]tance should be matched[字] immedia[控]tely.
38、趋炎附势[文]的人，不可与其[章]共患难。
A man who tends to be inflame[来]d and powerfu[自]l should not share his trouble[文]s with him.
39、没有朋友[字]也没有敌人的人[控]，就是凡夫俗子[文]。
He who has no friends[章] or enemies[来] is a common man.
40、想与所有[自]的人交友的人，[文]不是任何人的朋[字]友。
He who wants to make friends[控] with all is not anyone's friend.[文]
41、有的人想[章]的是他们朋友的[来]缺点，这是不会[自]有所得到的。
Some people think about the shortco[文]mings of their friends[字], which will not be gained.[控]
42、如果要了[文]解一个人，就看[章]他的朋友。
If you want to know a person,[来] look at his friends[自].
43、最好的朋[文]友是那种不喜欢[字]多说，能与你默[控]默相对而又息息[文]相通的人。
The best kind of friend is the one who doesn't like to talk much, and can keep in touch with you in silence[章].
44、生活中若[来]没有朋友，就像[自]生活中没有阳光[文]一样。
Life without[字] friends[控] is like life without[文] sunshin[章]e.
45、君子与君[来]子以同道为朋；[自]小人与小人以同[文]利为友。
A gentlem[字]an and a gentlem[控]an are friends[文] of the same way; a villain[章] and a villain[来] are friends[自] of the same interes[文]t.
46、君子之交[字]淡若水，小人之[控]交甘若醴。君子[文]淡以亲，小人甘[章]以绝。
A gentlem[来]an's acquain[自]tance is as light as water, and a villain[文]'s acquain[字]tance is as sweet as lick. A gentlem[控]an is indiffe[文]rent to his relativ[章]es, but a villain[来] is willing[自] to refuse.[文]
47、忠诚是友[字]谊的桥梁，欺骗[控]是友谊的叛徒。[文]
Loyalty[章] is the bridge of friends[来]hip, decepti[自]on is the traitor[文] of friends[字]hip.
48、人与人之[控]间的友谊，并非[文]由于说不尽的好[章]处，倒是说不出[来]的要好。
Friends[自]hip between[文] people is not due to inexpli[字]cable benefit[控]s, but to inexpli[文]cable good.
49、单独一个[章]人可能灭亡的地[来]方，两个人在一[自]起可能得救。
Where one person may perish alone, two people may be saved togethe[文]r.
50、非其地而[字]树之不生，非其[控]人而语之弗听。[文]
It is not the place where the tree grows, but the person who speaks.[章]
51、时间对友[来]谊的磨蚀，好比[自]水流过石子，反[文]而把它洗濯的光[字]洁了。
Time's erosion[控] of friends[文]hip is like water flowing[章] through[来] a stone, but it washes it clean.
52、不可以一[自]时之誉，断其为[文]君子，不可以一[字]时之谤，断其为[控]小人。
We can't judge a man as a gentlem[文]an or a villain[章] as a tempora[来]ry reputat[自]ion.
53、在各种孤[文]独中间，人最怕[字]精神上的孤独。[控]
Among all kinds of lonelin[文]ess, people are most afraid of spiritu[章]al lonelin[来]ess.
54、上天决定[自]了谁是你的亲戚[文]，幸运的是在选[字]择朋友方面它给[控]你留了余地。
God decides[文] who your relativ[章]es are. Fortuna[来]tely, it leaves you room to choose your friends[自].
55、君子敬而[文]无失，与人恭而[字]有礼，四海之内[控]皆兄弟也。
A gentlem[文]an is respect[章]ful and respect[来]ful, and a man is respect[自]ful and courteo[文]us. He is a brother[字] all over the world.
56、谁要求没[控]有缺点的朋友，[文]谁就会没有朋友[章]。
Whoever[来] asks for friends[自] without[文] shortco[字]mings will have no friends[控].
57、选择朋友[文]要谨慎，更换朋[章]友更要谨慎。
Choose friends[来] with caution[自], change friends[文] with caution[字].
58、道生于安[控]静，德生于卑退[文]；福生于清俭，[章]命生于和畅。
Tao was born in silence[来], virtue in retreat[自], happine[文]ss in thrift,[字] life in harmony[控].
59、真正的友[文]情，是一株成长[章]缓慢的植物。
True friends[来]hip is a plant that grows slowly.[自]
60、以酒交友[文]，与酒一样，仅[字]一晚而已。
Make friends with wine, just like wine, only one night.
